185. Sex and Porn Partner Betrayal Trauma. What To Do if Your Husband or Fiancé' is a Porn or Sex Addict. Interview with Leslie McCall and Jeff Hernandez.

Dec 5, 2022

Today, I interview Leslie McCall and Jeff Hernandez.  Leslie helps women who are dealing with a husband, fiancé or boyfriend who is wrestling with pornography or sexual addiction.  Listen as Leslie and Jeff talk about:

• How to confront a person who’s is trapped in sexual addiction
• How to overcome the fear of change
• How to deal with gaslighters, anger and counterattackers
• How you can’t forgive unless you know what you’re forgiving
• How to deal with self-blame

Questions:

1. How’d you and Jeff meet?
2. How’d you become a Christian?
3. Jeff shared his story in a previous episode, why’d you get involved in coaching women whose husbands struggle with addiction?
4. How do you know when your husband has an issue?
5. What do you do when you find something? How do you confront the situation?
6. What if your husband’s a gaslighter, defensive or angry?
7. What are seeing in people’s lives? What are women dealing with?
8. In the past, women in church were told either:
   1. Be more sexually available or:
   2. Leave your husband
      1. What are a woman’s options?
   3. How do you deal with self-blame?
   4. Jeff, you’ve said that “Men set better boundaries.” Can you explain?
   5. What do you do if your husband is in a high profile position and you are afraid he may lose his job or status?
   6. What services do you provide?
   7. What does the program look like?
   8. Is there hope after recovery? Can a marriage be repaired?
   9. Are there any good news stories or examples?

You can contact Leslie here:  [e-mail]